Dear EltonJ, the moment I saw your user name the tune to Tiny Dancer went through my head.
I found your theory of futa representing the emasculation of men in current society to be interesting even if I don't agree with everything you say. Certainly there are elements in society that are doing their damnedest to emasculate men. Pointing that fact out is like going outside and pointing at the sun and saying, "See that thing? It's what keeps our planet warm." And it's not hard at all to find those elements in the futa "community".
But there are at least two factors you're missing at work in the futa fetish. One is the bisexual attraction of having elements of both genders wrapped up in one neat package. The other is attraction that males typically have for lesbian porn. However, the problem with lesbian porn is that rubbing two pussies together gets boring after awhile and a strap-on is a poor replacement for the real thing. Futa is the ultimate solution. I'm sure there are more than just those two but those are the ones that pertain the most to my attraction to the futanari. I just don't think most people into futa think of it as anything other than a type of porn. I like futa and I don't feel particularly emasculated. Quite the contrary actually.
Quote:but the topics and messages range a lot more than just 'dickgirls > men'.
It's actually a very small part of the fetish. Although it does tend to draw attention to itself.