Hello

[DakeDesu]

Hi there and I hope you'll enjoy it here.

Dakedesu, do you mean with stay away from the summoner that you should not be a judge?
Does don't flame mean that you shouldn't send bad private messages to someone?

Well, with Stay Away From the Summoner, I was simply quoting FFX but your interpretation is better

As per don't flame and don't post flamebait.

What a flame is (For the OP sake) is an insult, angry expression, or just the general idea of tearing somebody the proverbial "new one". A piece of flamebait is a well worded item designed tomake the writer look good, except to those he angers by that item, and their response to that item often make them look just as stupdi unless they point out it is flamebait.

So no, don't flame is not _limited_ to sending bad private messages... flames can be quite public. They can _include_ private messages, but the spectrum is much larger.